自由的蓝色

从朋友那里拿来的~觉得很有意思~

想爱而不敢爱的人，是最没有资格爱人

其实，反过来说有很多解释法

1. A想爱B，却怕给不起爱，所以A一直不和B说爱

2. A想爱B，却不知道B是不是也爱A，怕得到的答案不是想要的，所以不敢A不敢和B说爱

3. A想爱B，却无奈与外在因素而无法爱B，怕经不起困难，所以A不敢和B说爱

4.。。。。

太多假设性的答案

说回来，只因为输不起

因为输不起，所以不敢说爱

每个人分开的恋情，都有着不同的原因

有些人，是输给了距离

有些人，是输给了时间

有些人，是输给了性格

有些人，是输给了机会

有些人，是输给了感觉

原来
恋爱，真的很不容易，却又能很简单
而你，输给了什么

有些事不是单靠猜

爱就是每一天的放下和拿起

放下
放下
何谓放下？

爱，就是每一天的放下和拿起

对于恋爱，我总觉得我还在幼稚园阶段
很多时候，我还很新
很多事，我还是不明白

有些问题
可能我不应该问，却还是不自禁的问了
可能是种伤害，可能就像把别人要愈合的伤口又在血淋淋的掀开

对于爱恋学中，我就是个新生，总在错多过对时



爱，就是每天的放下和拿起

tomolo 18of january~
days of open school~

isshoni gambate everyone!

time to sleep ler~....zzzzz

"The Lovely Bones" centers on a young girl who has been murdered and watches over her family and her killer from heaven. She must weigh her desire for vengeance against her desire for her family to heal. Oscar® nominee Mark Wahlberg and Oscar® winners Rachel Weisz and Susan Sarandon star along with Stanley Tucci, Michael Imperioli and Oscar® nominee Saoirse Ronan. [D-Man2010]

Susie Salmon, a young girl who has been murdered, watches over her family -- and her killer -- from heaven. She must weigh her desire for vengeance against her desire for her family to heal. [D-Man2010]

Based on the critically acclaimed best-selling novel by Alice Sebold, and directed by Oscar® winner Peter Jackson from a screenplay by Jackson & Fran Walsh & Philippa Boyens, The Lovely Bones centers on a young girl who has been murdered and watches over her family and her killer from heaven. She must weigh her desire for vengeance against her desire for her family to heal. Oscar® nominee Mark Wahlberg and Oscar® winners Rachel Weisz and Susan Sarandon star along with Stanley Tucci, Michael Imperioli and Oscar® nominee Saoirse Ronan. [D-Man2010]

On December 6, 1973 in Norristown, Pennsylvania, a suburb of Philadelphia, Susie Salmon takes a shortcut home from school. She is approached by a neighbor, George Harvey, a man in his mid-30s who lives alone and builds dollhouses for a living. He persuades her to enter an underground den he has recently built nearby. Once she enters, he rapes her, stabs her to death, then dismembers her body. An elbow, the only part of Susie ever to be found, falls out of his bag as he returns home, disposing of the remaining parts of the body by putting them in a safe and dropping it into a sinkhole. Meanwhile, Susie's spirit flees toward her personal heaven.

The Salmon family is at first reluctant to accept that Susie has been killed, but then accedes when Susie's hat and elbow are found. The police who talk to Harvey find him odd but see no reason to suspect him. Jack, Susie's father, becomes suspicious and later begins to harass the police about Harvey. Susie's sister Lindsey comes to share these suspicions. Jack, consumed with guilt over not having been able to protect his daughter, remains on extended leave from work and increasingly isolates himself at home. Buckley, the youngest child in the family of three, tries to make sense of all this as he starts school.

One day late in the summer a detective named Len Fenerman comes to tell the Salmons that the police have exhausted all leads and are dropping the investigation. That night in his study, Jack looks out the window and sees a flashlight in the cornfield. Believing it to be Harvey returning to destroy evidence, he runs out to confront him with a baseball bat. It turns out to be Susie's best friend, Clarissa, and her boyfriend Brian looking for a place to make out. Brian and Jack struggle and Jack is struck with the bat. As a result he has to have knee replacement surgery. In the wake of this, his wife Abigail begins having an affair with Fenerman, who is a widower.

Still suspicious, Lindsey sneaks into Harvey's house and finds a drawing of the pit, but is forced to leave when Harvey returns prematurely. Sensing danger, Harvey leaves Norristown as soon as possible and becomes a drifter. A year later the police bulldoze the cornfield and turn up a soda bottle from the night of the murder with Harvey's and Susie's fingerprints, finally making him an official suspect. However, he remains at large. That fall, a hunter in Connecticut discovers the body of another one of Harvey's victims, and one of Susie's charms nearby. In 1981, a detective in Connecticut links the charm to Susie's murder and calls Fenerman. As they uncover further evidence, the police realize that Harvey is a serial killer. At about the same time, Susie sees into Harvey's traumatic childhood, and develops a grudging pity for her killer.

The following summer Abigail leaves her husband, going to her father's old cabin in New Hampshire and then moving to California, taking a job at a winery. As a result, her mother, Grandma Lynn, moves into the Salmons' home to help her son-in-law care for Buckley and Lindsey.

Lindsey and her boyfriend Samuel Heckler become engaged, find an old house in the woods owned by a classmate's father, and decide to fix it up and live there. Sometime after the celebration, while arguing with his son, Jack suffers from a heart attack. The emergency prompts Abigail to return from California, but the reunion is tempered by Buckley's lingering bitterness at her for having abandoned him and his father.

Meanwhile, Harvey returns to Norristown, which has become more developed. He explores his old neighborhood and notices the school is being expanded into the cornfield where he murdered Susie. He drives by the sinkhole where Susie's body rests, and where Ruth Connors and Ray Singh are standing. Ruth, an old classmate of Susie's who had felt Susie's spirit go past her after her murder, senses the women Harvey has killed and is overcome. Susie, watching from heaven, is also overwhelmed with emotion and the two girls exchange positions. Susie, her spirit now in Ruth's body, kisses Ray, who had a crush on Susie in school, and they go to the back room in Hal Heckler's (the older brother of Lindsey's boyfriend Samuel) bike shop to make love. Afterwards, Susie returns to heaven.

She moves on into the larger heaven, still watching earthbound events from time to time. She sees her sister's newborn baby girl, who is named Abigail Suzanne. One day she spies Harvey getting off a Greyhound bus at a diner in New Hampshire in early spring. Behind the diner he sees a young woman and attempts to speak to her, but she rebuffs him. Susie notices some large icicles hanging from the roof, and after the woman leaves, one falls and hits Harvey on the head, knocking him into a nearby ravine and ultimately killing him.

The novel ends with Susie showing us Lindsey's newborn daughter, then tracking away to a newer house where a man has finally found Susie's old charm bracelet. "This little girl's grown up by now," his wife says. "Almost. Not quite," Susie's narrative voice rejoins. "I wish you all a long and happy life."

i wan see this show
it is call" the lovely bones"...
看trailer就有点感动了~
我们去看这个戏好吗？？

我要看！

女孩有义务让男孩走向成熟，男孩有责任让女孩学着长大
女孩在男孩失意的时候要鼓励他自己站起来，男孩在女孩伤

心的 时候要让她依靠你
男孩困惑时想听女孩的想法，女孩困惑时想听男孩的安慰
男孩想在女孩那里得到一个家，女孩只想在男孩那里得到一把伞
一瓶意想不到的香水才让女孩感动，而一杯缓解疲劳的开水就会 让男孩感动
女孩子看了这些，要懂得在适当的时候找一个真正的男人，男 孩子看了这些，要懂得在任何时候都努力做一个真正的男人，给 得起幸福。


我对实验的情感比大多数校友都更深刻，因为我在这里懂得了 很多，我学会了用自己的力量完成自己的理想，包括大学， 包括我的爱人，希望你们珍惜高中的生活，珍惜爱你的人， 珍惜自己的梦想，然后很用功很用功，和自己爱的人同时拥有好 前程，实现曾经的承诺。

独自一个人不能学会这些道理吗？
hmm.....


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